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    <title>Excerpt from &quot;Way Beyond Time&quot;</title>
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    <published>2010-02-05T04:44:47Z</published>
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    <summary><![CDATA[I have just written a rather lengthy essay on the subject aging and death.&nbsp; So my blog this week will consist of an excerpt from that essay, "Way Beyond Time." &nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; . . . . . Death somehow always comes...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I have just written a rather lengthy essay on the subject aging and death.&nbsp; So my blog this week will consist of an excerpt from that essay, "Way Beyond Time."</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; . . . . .</p>
<p>Death somehow always comes as a surprise, as an aberration, though it is the experience that we surely hold most in common with all living things.&nbsp; We learn that we are "terminal," as they say of the place where you get off, the last stop, and we feel misjudged, even betrayed.&nbsp; <em>Won't I be the exception?</em></p>
<p>We know others die.&nbsp; And we think, it's too bad isn't it.&nbsp; But it's always someone else.&nbsp; <em>A woman says to her husband, "Sweetheart, if one of us should die first, I think I'll go and live in Paris."</em></p>
<p>Years ago one of my minister friends told me a story about a pastoral visit he had with a man who was 89 years old.&nbsp; The man had been told that he had cancer, and that the disease was advanced.&nbsp; He was "terminal."&nbsp; When my minister friend approached the man's hospital bed to bring him some comfort of whatever kind can come when there is nothing to be said, the old man looked at him, incredulous, and asked, "Why me?"</p>
<p>Five years later I am visiting that same minister friend.&nbsp; His name is Dan.&nbsp; Before he became a minister, he was a postman.&nbsp; Now he has brain cancer, and he is dying.&nbsp; The ministers of his acquaintance have pooled their money to buy him and his wife a new washing machine and dryer so they won't have to go across town to the laundromat.&nbsp; I was one of Dan's closest friends when we were seminary students, and I love the man, so I have flown down to say good-bye.&nbsp; His head is shaved from his surgeries, and he is thin.&nbsp; A Buddhist who has meditated for years, Dan is calm and quiet.&nbsp; On the other hand, I am frustrated and angry, and tears edge out in spite of myself.&nbsp; I want to rant and rave.&nbsp; Dan says, "It's all right.&nbsp; I'm all right."&nbsp; And I see that he is.&nbsp; He died a few weeks later.&nbsp; Every time I dance to "Three Dog Night" I remember how Dan used to leap into the air, dancing to&nbsp;their music: "Joy to the world, all the boys and girls, joy to the fishes in the deep blue sea, joy to you and me."</p><br>
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    <title>Howard Zinn Dies: He Changed My Life</title>
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    <published>2010-01-28T17:08:55Z</published>
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    <summary><![CDATA[We have lost Howard Zinn, an old lion of the Left, who never stopped writing and speaking for the underdog.&nbsp; With his passing, there's "a hole in the sky." There are not too many books of which you can say,...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>We have lost Howard Zinn, an old lion of the Left, who never stopped writing and speaking for the underdog.&nbsp; With his passing, there's "a hole in the sky."</p>
<p>There are not too many books of which you can say, "Reading this changed my life."&nbsp; I can probably count them on the fingers of one hand.&nbsp; One of those is Zinn's&nbsp;"A People's History of the United States."&nbsp; It is the history of our country from the perspective of those who generally remain voiceless: native Americans, slaves, women, immigrants, poor laboring people.&nbsp; It's what you never learned in high school or college when you took American history and read about all the conquering men and heroic deeds of U.S. past.&nbsp; If you haven't read Zinn's book, read it now.&nbsp; You will be shocked, you may weep.&nbsp; You will be changed.</p><br>
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    <title>Loaded Oatmeal Cookies</title>
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    <published>2010-01-28T04:55:40Z</published>
    <updated>2010-01-28T05:36:47Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[Those of you who have been following my blog for several years know that occasionally I publish a recipe, one of the many recipes which I find in a newspaper or magazine and cut out, but never actually use.&nbsp; I...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Those of you who have been following my blog for several years know that occasionally I publish a recipe, one of the many recipes which I find in a newspaper or magazine and cut out, but never actually use.&nbsp; I will rip a recipe out of its moorings, thinking that one day I may in fact&nbsp;make this delectable dish,&nbsp;but thus far, I've never done so.&nbsp; I must face facts: I collect recipes, but I don't cook.&nbsp; My weakness, however, should not prevent my passing on to readers a recipe that catches my eye, so here goes:</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; LOADED OATMEAL COOKIES</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(from&nbsp;some out-of-date women's magazine in the doctor's office)</p>
<p>1/4 c. butter, softened&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3/4 c. all-purpose flour</p>
<p>1/2 c. brown sugar, packed&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3/4 c. rolled oats</p>
<p>1/3 c. granulated sugar</p>
<p>1 t. ground cinnamon&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. flax seed meal</p>
<p>1 t. baking soda&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. wheat germ&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
<p>1/8 t. salt&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 2 oz. dark chocolate, finely chopped</p>
<p>1 egg&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. dried cranberries</p>
<p>1 t. vanilla&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. chopped walnuts, toasted</p>
<p>(Note on ingredients: I like all of the healthy stuff in the cookies, although I might, if I ever actually cooked them, reduce the amount of sugar.&nbsp; Also, I&nbsp;might substitute raisins for cranberries.&nbsp; And I wouldn't bother to toast the walnuts, since I'm going to bake the cookies, after all.)</p>
<p>Preheat oven to 350F.&nbsp; In large mixing bowl, beat butter with electric mixer for 30 sec.&nbsp; Add brown sugar, granulated sugar, cinnamon, baking soda, and salt.&nbsp; Beat until combined.&nbsp; Beat in egg and vanilla.&nbsp; Beat in flour.&nbsp; Stire in rolled oats, flax seed meal, wheat germ, chocolate, cranberries, and walnuts (dough will be a little crumbly, and you will think,"Oh, what have I done wrong!")&nbsp; Drop dough by rounded teaspoons 2 inches apart onto ungreased cookie sheets.&nbsp; Bake for 9-11 minutes or until tops are lightly browned.&nbsp; Cool cookies on cookie sheet for a minute and then transfer to a wire rack to cool.&nbsp; Makes about 30 cookies.</p>
<p>Good luck with this!&nbsp; If anyone our there in cyberland actually makes these cookies, please let me know how they came out.</p>
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    <title>Loaded Oatmeal Cookies</title>
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    <published>2010-01-28T04:55:40Z</published>
    <updated>2010-01-28T05:26:38Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[Those of you who have been following my blog for several years know that occasionally I publish a recipe, one of the many recipes which I find in a newspaper or magazine and cut out, but never actually use.&nbsp; I...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Those of you who have been following my blog for several years know that occasionally I publish a recipe, one of the many recipes which I find in a newspaper or magazine and cut out, but never actually use.&nbsp; I will rip a recipe out of its moorings, thinking that one day I may in fact&nbsp;make this delectable dish,&nbsp;but thus far, I've never done so.&nbsp; I must face facts: I collect recipes, but I don't cook.&nbsp; My weakness, however, should not prevent my passing on to readers a recipe that catches my eye, so here goes:</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; LOADED OATMEAL COOKIES</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(from&nbsp;some out-of-date women's magazine in the doctor's office)</p>
<p>1/4 c. butter, softened&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3/4 c. all-purpose flour</p>
<p>1/2 c. brown sugar, packed&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3/4 c. rolled oats</p>
<p>1/3 c. granulated sugar</p>
<p>1 t. ground cinnamon&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. flax seed meal</p>
<p>1 t. baking soda&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. wheat germ&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
<p>1/8 t. salt&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 2 oz. dark chocolate, finely chopped</p>
<p>1 egg&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. dried cranberries</p>
<p>1 t. vanilla&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. chopped walnuts, toasted</p>
<p>(Note on ingredients: I like all of the healthy stuff in the cookies, although I might, if I ever actually cooked them, reduce the amount of sugar.&nbsp; Also, I&nbsp;might substitute raisins for cranberries.&nbsp; And I wouldn't bother to toast the walnuts, since I'm going to bake the cookies, after all.)</p>
<p>Preheat oven to 350F.&nbsp; In large mixing bowl, beat butter with electric mixer for 30 sec.&nbsp; Add brown sugar, granulated sugar, cinnamon, baking soda, and salt.&nbsp; Beat until combined.&nbsp; Beat in egg and vanilla.&nbsp; Beat in flour.&nbsp; Stire in rolled oats, flax seed meal, wheat germ, chocolate, cranberries, and walnuts (dough will be a little crumbly, and you will think,"Oh, what have I done wrong!")&nbsp; Drop dough by rounded teaspoons 2 inches apart onto ungreased cookie sheets.&nbsp; Bake for 9-11 minutes or until tops are lightly browned.&nbsp; Cool cookies on cookie sheet for a minute and then transfer to a wire rack to cool.&nbsp; Makes about 30 cookies.</p>
<p>Good luck with this!&nbsp; If anyone our there in cyberland actually makes these cookies, please let me know how they came out.</p>
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    <title>Loaded Oatmeal Cookies</title>
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    <published>2010-01-28T04:55:40Z</published>
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    <summary><![CDATA[Those of you who have been following my blog for several years know that occasionally I publish a recipe, one of the many recipes which I find in a newspaper or magazine and cut out, but never actually use.&nbsp; I...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Those of you who have been following my blog for several years know that occasionally I publish a recipe, one of the many recipes which I find in a newspaper or magazine and cut out, but never actually use.&nbsp; I will rip a recipe out of its moorings, thinking that one day I may in fact&nbsp;make this delectable dish,&nbsp;but thus far, I've never done so.&nbsp; I must face facts: I collect recipes, but I don't cook.&nbsp; My weakness, however, should not prevent my passing on to readers a recipe that catches my eye, so here goes:</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; LOADED OATMEAL COOKIES</p>
<p>&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;(from&nbsp;some out-of-date women's magazine in the doctor's office)</p>
<p>1/4 c. butter, softened&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3/4 c. all-purpose flour</p>
<p>1/2 c. brown sugar, packed&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 3/4 c. rolled oats</p>
<p>1/3 c. granulated sugar</p>
<p>1 t. ground cinnamon&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. flax seed meal</p>
<p>1 t. baking soda&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. wheat germ&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; </p>
<p>1/8 t. salt&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 2 oz. dark chocolate, finely chopped</p>
<p>1 egg&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. dried cranberries</p>
<p>1 t. vanilla&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp; 1/4 c. chopped walnuts, toasted</p>
<p>(Note on ingredients: I like all of the healthy stuff in the cookies, although I might, if I ever actually cooked them, reduce the amount of sugar.&nbsp; Also, I&nbsp;might substitute raisins for cranberries.&nbsp; And I wouldn't bother to toast the walnuts, since I'm going to bake the cookies, after all.)</p>
<p>Preheat oven to 350F.&nbsp; In large mixing bowl, beat butter with electric mixer for 30 sec.&nbsp; Add brown sugar, granulated sugar, cinnamon, baking soda, and salt.&nbsp; Beat until combined.&nbsp; Beat in egg and vanilla.&nbsp; Beat in flour.&nbsp; Stire in rolled oats, flax seed meal, wheat germ, chocolate, cranberries, and walnuts (dough will be a little crumbly, and you will think,"Oh, what have I done wrong!")&nbsp; Drop dough by rounded teaspoons 2 inches apart onto ungreased cookie sheets.&nbsp; Bake for 9-11 minutes or until tops are lightly browned.&nbsp; Cool cookies on cookie sheet for a minute and then transfer to a wire rack to cool.&nbsp; Makes about 30 cookies.</p>
<p>Good luck with this!&nbsp; If anyone our there in cyberland actually makes these cookies, please let me know how they came out.</p>
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    <title>Review of Film: &quot;Crazy Heart&quot;</title>
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    <published>2010-01-25T06:02:40Z</published>
    <updated>2010-01-25T07:27:42Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[This little essay on the film "Crazy Heart," which I just saw this afternoon, cannot in all good faith be considered a "review," I suppose, in that it&nbsp;is in no way comprehensive or even objective.&nbsp; It falls under the category...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>This little essay on the film "Crazy Heart," which I just saw this afternoon, cannot in all good faith be considered a "review," I suppose, in that it&nbsp;is in no way comprehensive or even objective.&nbsp; It falls under the category of "What, again??" </p>
<p>First I should say that I did enjoy the film.&nbsp; Jeff Bridges was excellent in the role of the down-and-out country singer, and&nbsp;the talented&nbsp;Maggie Gyllenhaal can hardly miss, whatever role she plays.&nbsp; And I really like country music--good country music, not "that artificial stuff," as Gyllenhaal calls it.&nbsp; I grew up listening to Hank Williams and first heard Johnny Cash back in the '60's in New Orleans.&nbsp; Bridges sings well, and the song writers do a more than decent job.</p>
<p>But the "What, again??" refers to the portrayal of male/female relationships.&nbsp; I found myself asking the following questions, as I viewed the film:</p>
<p>--Would a&nbsp;beautiful young thing like Maggie really fall goo-goo in love with a 53-year-old&nbsp;gross, unkempt, chain-smoking, pot-bellied alcoholic with a series of failed relationships (4 marriages and a son he has essentially deserted)?&nbsp; Even if he is a sincere, charming, talented country singer?</p>
<p>--Why does a man always need a female muse to allow him to create his art? &nbsp;(Read art history, and weep, women.)&nbsp; And by the way, when a female artist needs a muse, where does she go to get hers?</p>
<p>--When are we going to see a movie about a talented woman who is well past her youth, destitute, overweight, and a&nbsp;promiscuous alcoholic to boot, who&nbsp;attracts a young handsome man who saves her from her&nbsp;decline and inspires her to&nbsp;do her best work ever?</p>
<p>Now the film does get a few things right.&nbsp; "Bad," Jeff Bridges' character,&nbsp;is a true portrayal of an alcoholic.&nbsp; He is careless about his health.&nbsp; He doesn't really&nbsp;understand the consequences of his behavior--in particular, the hurt and distrust he evokes in others.&nbsp; Nothing is more important than the next drink--not the woman, not her child, not&nbsp;his child, not&nbsp;his music.&nbsp; He is, however, charming and courtly--qualities which characterize many male alcoholics, in particular from the South.</p>
<p>And what else the film gets right is Bad's losses--his quick and quite unbelievable recovery to sobriety is too little, too late.&nbsp; He is surprised that his woman turns him away.&nbsp; "Hey, I'm different now.&nbsp; Everything has changed."&nbsp;&nbsp;She tells him she loves him, but she can never trust him again with her child.&nbsp; Never.&nbsp; Much can be forgiven, but nothing is forgotten.&nbsp; What is done, or not done,&nbsp;clouds our experience ever after.&nbsp;Bad&nbsp;walks away, bewildered.</p>
<p>When the movie ends, Bad (now calling himself by his true name, Otis)&nbsp;has left alcohol behind, has written&nbsp;terrific new songs, and has made a&nbsp;load of money.&nbsp; I wish I could believe it.&nbsp; Johnny Cash conquered his addictions with the help of&nbsp;June Carter and Jesus.&nbsp; Ray Carver was saved from alcoholism by the poet Tess Gallagher.&nbsp; I don't believe Bad had the character&nbsp;to&nbsp;rid himself of his addiction--at least&nbsp;without a whole lot more support than he had--or that the film portrayed, in any case.&nbsp; </p>
<p>I think producers&nbsp;believed the film needed a (somewhat) happy ending, as almost all Hollywood films&nbsp;do.&nbsp; This was no Nicholas Cage "Leaving Las Vegas."&nbsp; The theater was crowded--"Crazy Heart" is packing them in.&nbsp; Redemption just feels good, even when it's unlikely.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><br>
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    <title>Luxury Cruise Liners Visit Haiti</title>
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    <published>2010-01-22T04:42:22Z</published>
    <updated>2010-01-22T05:37:35Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[It seems that a luxury cruise line based in&nbsp;Florida&nbsp;is continuing to have its ships stop off in Haiti to let passengers "tour" the country and buy trinkets--in spite of the current devastation by the earthquake.&nbsp; When interviewed by the BBC,...]]></summary>
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        <name>Marilyn Sewell</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p>It seems that a luxury cruise line based in&nbsp;Florida&nbsp;is continuing to have its ships stop off in Haiti to let passengers "tour" the country and buy trinkets--in spite of the current devastation by the earthquake.&nbsp; When interviewed by the BBC, and challenged by the reporter&nbsp;for allowing pleasure tours in the midst of the death and destruction, the spokesperson for the cruise line explained that it was important to continue the present practice, because&nbsp;the cruise ships&nbsp;brought much-needed jobs to the Haitians and spurred the economy of this very poor country.</p>
<p>Now on the surface of things, this seems like a perfectly logical position to take.&nbsp; We're doing the Haitians a favor, to pump up business!&nbsp; To be sure, the country is poor--the poorest in the Western hemisphere.&nbsp; So why was the reporter (and this writer) so clearly astonished and disgusted with this decision by the U.S. cruise line and by the justification articulated by its representative?</p>
<p>I think it is because we intuitively know that when great loss and suffering take place, the only appropiate response is grief--and then an outpouring of heartful help, in whatever way is possible for those of us who have had the good fortune to be spared by Fate this time around.&nbsp; We know at moments like this that we are one human family, and our hearts are wounded, heavy with the vastness of the tragedy and distraught at our&nbsp;feelings of&nbsp;helplessness in the face of it.</p>
<p>If there are&nbsp;tourists&nbsp;on board luxury&nbsp;liners who can consider "touring" Haiti at this terrible time, they and the ship's masters are drastically out of touch with their humanity.&nbsp; They are denying their own flesh and emotions surely, if they can separate themselves from the suffering all around them.&nbsp; There are so many dead that there can be no proper burial for most.&nbsp; In fact, many may never be identified.&nbsp; Huge communal graves are being dug&nbsp;with earth-moving equipment, and the bodies of men, women and children&nbsp;are tumbled&nbsp;in together, in a last embrace.&nbsp;</p>
<p>What makes us human, at last?&nbsp; Is it not the understanding that there are some accidents, some terrible losses, some acts of nature, some evil-doing that is so profound that we must be silent in the face of it?&nbsp; Surely we will continue to eat our dinners and laugh over trivial things and wonder at the&nbsp;beauty of the sky at dusk--but&nbsp;at times like this, we must stop and notice, we must mark the moment.&nbsp; There is no business as usual.&nbsp; We breathe deeply, we know once again the fragility of our flesh, and all flesh, and our hearts are broken open.&nbsp; The fantasy of safety is gone, we float into the unknown, on the edge of time, and we are one.</p><br>
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    <title>Conversation with Christopher Hitchens</title>
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    <published>2010-01-08T01:43:36Z</published>
    <updated>2010-01-08T02:40:59Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[I have an article in the January issue of Portland Monthly--it's a conversation with Christopher Hitchens, the well-known British atheist whose big book is God Is Not Great.&nbsp; (Someone quipped that his book title&nbsp;is just one word too long.)&nbsp; If...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I have an article in the January issue of <em>Portland Monthly</em>--it's a conversation with Christopher Hitchens, the well-known British atheist whose big book is <em>God Is Not Great</em>.&nbsp; (Someone quipped that his book title&nbsp;is just one word too long.)&nbsp; If you want to check it out, go to their web site, and then go to "Current Issue."&nbsp; Or try the following link: <a href="http://www.portlandmonthlymag.com/arts-and-entertainment/category/book-and-talks/articles/religion-god-0110/">www.portlandmonthlymag.com/arts-and-entertainment/category/book-and-talks/articles/religion-god-0110/</a> </p>
<p>I also had dinner with Hitchens and around a dozen others on Tuesday evening after his&nbsp;talk at Portland Arts and Lectures.&nbsp; He must be one of the most articulate people on the planet, and there is great pleasure in watching his mind play with words and entertain with turns of irony.&nbsp; However,&nbsp;Hitchens is&nbsp;as well known for his drinking as he is for his wit, and as the evening wore on, I found he became more and more acerbic and insulting.&nbsp; The man is brilliant, but not wise; clever, but not deep; and a fundamentalist, in regard to religion, rejecting any form of liberal&nbsp;Christianity as bogus religion, not to be respected.&nbsp; </p>
<p>Hitchens clearly has never studied theology, and most of the comments he made concerning the Bible, Jesus, salvation, etc., were shockingly naive.&nbsp; Where he has something to offer, of course, is his critique of religion and society,&nbsp;and all of the horrors and nonsense done in the name of religion, which I have no argument with.&nbsp; It's not exactly news that the Inquisition was a bad thing.&nbsp; And that Catholic priests shouldn't abuse altar boys.&nbsp; And (his particular nemesis) jihadists shouldn't blow up innocent civilians.&nbsp; </p>
<p>Hitchens is&nbsp; the ultimate intellectual "bad boy."&nbsp; He performs.&nbsp; He "debates."&nbsp; He entertains. All of which he does&nbsp;very well.&nbsp; &nbsp;But&nbsp;this should not be confused with thoughtful discourse.&nbsp;</p><br>
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    <title>Taking a Break</title>
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    <published>2009-11-24T22:57:09Z</published>
    <updated>2009-11-24T22:59:24Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[Thanksgiving is just about here, and then early in December I'm moving house--and then there's Christmas!&nbsp; I'm realizing that I will not be able to write regularly for a while.&nbsp; But stay tuned--I'll be back!...]]></summary>
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        <name>Marilyn Sewell</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[Thanksgiving is just about here, and then early in December I'm moving house--and then there's Christmas!&nbsp; I'm realizing that I will not be able to write regularly for a while.&nbsp; But stay tuned--I'll be back!<br>
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    <title>Should I Have My Next Mammogram?</title>
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    <published>2009-11-20T17:35:17Z</published>
    <updated>2009-11-20T18:45:46Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[I got a call from Kaiser Permanente several days ago informing me that I was due for my yearly mammogram.&nbsp; That call came the day before I saw the headline in the NY Times telling me that having a test...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>I got a call from Kaiser Permanente several days ago informing me that I was due for my yearly mammogram.&nbsp; That call came the day before I saw the headline in the NY <em>Times </em>telling me that having a test every other year is now the recommendation from the U.S. Preventive Services Task Force for a woman my age.&nbsp; Besides, they say, nevermind the breast self-exam, or even the exam by my primary care physician.&nbsp; None of this is going to save my life.&nbsp; Statistically, anyway.&nbsp; And besides, more frequent exams may lead me to extreme anxiety when a lump is found that turns out to be benign (which has happened 2 or 3 times already), and I may be subjected to unnecessary treatment for an early-stage&nbsp;cancer which might have gone away on its own--unnecessary treatment being more tests, and perhaps radiation and/or chemotherapy, and even surgery.&nbsp; Whoa!&nbsp; What should a woman do?</p>
<p>Robert Aronowitz gives a fascinating history of the treatment of breast cancer in his article "Addicted to Mammograms" (NY <em>Times</em>, 11/20/09).&nbsp; Aronowitz tells us that in the 19th century, doctors had cottoned onto the germ theory, conquering diseases like cholera, but were frustrated in their attempts to cure cancer.&nbsp; Cancer had been considered a systemic illness, running throughout the body, and so why operate on a specific tumor.&nbsp; </p>
<p>In the 1870's doctors began to believe that cancer begins locally and remains local for some time before spreading (what we now call <em>metastasis</em>).&nbsp; Concurrently, anesthesia was being developed, and so doctors were encouraged to operate--in the case of breast cancer, to remove the breast of the patient.&nbsp; By the turn of the century, William Halsted of Johns Hopkins was promoting an approach that included the removal of the breast as well as the lymph nodes in the armpit and the muscles attached to the breast and chest wall.&nbsp; This approach soon became medical dogma--even though Halsted's own clinical observations indicated that the operation did not save lives: he became aware that patients died of metastatic cancer.</p>
<p>Early in&nbsp;the second decade of the 20th century, doctors began advising women to see their doctors "without delay" if they discovered a breast lump.&nbsp; The message was that if you discovered the cancer in time, surgery could provide a cure.&nbsp;&nbsp;This claim was, unfortunately, based on wishful thinking and not hard scientific evidence--and resulted in the creation of what Aronowitz calls "a culture of fear" around breast cancer, as women understandably tried to gain more&nbsp;and more control over cancer, believing that surveillance and early detection and treatment&nbsp;would save lives.&nbsp; During the 1930's and '40's more and more cancer was being diagnosed and treated, much of it in the early stages,&nbsp;and cancer survival rates seemed to support the early detection theory.</p>
<p>However, by the 1950's some researchers were pointing out that despite the seeming progress, mortality rates for breast cancer had hardly improved.&nbsp; And they continued in the same vein from 1950 to 1990, with about 28 cancer deaths per 100,000 people.&nbsp; In 1971, evidence showed that mammograms were of little value to women under 50--but this news collided with the prevailing practice, and so it was ignored.</p>
<p>As with all medical decisions, there are trade-offs--some are clearer than others.&nbsp; To prevent one death from breast cancer, you have to screen 1,900 women in their 40's for 10 years.&nbsp; During the screening you will find more than 1,000 false-positives, and these women will have to endure all the resulting overtreatment.&nbsp; </p>
<p>Not to mention the financial piece--and to be sure,&nbsp;cost will be considered by the government and by insurers.&nbsp; Medical diagnosis and treatment is limited in every country and every culture--because resources are finite.&nbsp; Every society has to decide where to best place those resources.&nbsp; Some citizens are afraid that medical care will be "rationed" under the new health care plan Congress is now considering.&nbsp; It is being rationed already, in favor of those who have money.&nbsp; It should be rationed on a more logical and scientific and just basis.&nbsp; </p>
<p>But this begs the question: so should I have my mammogram?&nbsp; I'll probably discuss this with my doctor, who is a wise man.&nbsp; My mother died of breast cancer, and her sister died of cancer, too.&nbsp; In fact, all my 6 aunts and uncles on my father's side died of cancer, too.&nbsp; Does this make me "high risk"?&nbsp; Like all women, I've been socialized to be frightened of my body--it's too fat, it's not the right shape, it's sure to become "diseased" if I don't worry about it every moment.&nbsp; What's the balance between prudence and pathological concern?&nbsp; Like many women, I just don't know.</p><br>
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    <title>Would You Want to Be Friends with This Person?</title>
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    <published>2009-11-11T18:09:57Z</published>
    <updated>2009-11-11T19:15:18Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[What if&nbsp;you had a friend with a number of serious problems, what would you say to him?&nbsp; And when I say "serious problems," I'm referring to problems of character--spiritual problems, as it were--for the spiritual&nbsp;dimension is the ground that we...]]></summary>
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        <name>Marilyn Sewell</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p>What if&nbsp;you had a friend with a number of serious problems, what would you say to him?&nbsp; And when I say "serious problems," I'm referring to problems of character--spiritual problems, as it were--for the spiritual&nbsp;dimension is the ground that we come from, for all of our living, is it not?&nbsp; Let's say that your friend behaves in the following way:</p>
<p>--He begins to use&nbsp;most any means at all, to justify the ends he was going for.</p>
<p>--He manipulates others by playing on their deepest fears and insecurities.</p>
<p>--He tells lies and encourages others to lie, in service of their goals.</p>
<p>--He discounts science and tries to discredit reputable scientists.</p>
<p>--He shows little compassion for the poor, the sick, the weak.</p>
<p>--He believes that "freedom" means that&nbsp;the strong should take all they can get.</p>
<p>--He says he is a Christian and he has&nbsp;serious doubts about those who are not.</p>
<p>I have a friend like this.&nbsp; But I am saddened by what has become of him.&nbsp; Although historically&nbsp;he has&nbsp;had values that&nbsp;differed from mine in significant ways,&nbsp;I could understand and&nbsp;respect&nbsp;his&nbsp;values--values like&nbsp;like preserving tradition, taking personal responsiblity, and loving one's country.&nbsp; But I no longer respect him or his values.</p>
<p>You may have guessed his name by now: he is called Grand O. Party.&nbsp; But the moniker of "grand" surely no longer applies, and the "party" lacks all integrity and therefore all cohesion and all power to influence our country in positive ways.</p>
<p>Can my friend be redeemed?&nbsp; Of course.&nbsp; We all go down the wrong path at times.&nbsp; We are led astray by false leaders and promises of wealth and glory.&nbsp; My friend needs to give up his ways of lying and manipulating, to get his way.&nbsp; He needs to stop worshiping shallow and vain leaders, more given to ego than to genuine caring about the country.&nbsp; He needs to learn to respect and co-operate with those who may differ from him, whether in race or&nbsp;class or religion or sexual orientation.&nbsp; He needs to understand that we are a country, and we must face our demons together as a people, or we are lost.</p>
<p>Will my friend change?&nbsp; Is he like most of us--that is, he has to fall hard, has to lose everything before he will change his ways?&nbsp; I hope not.&nbsp; In the not-too-distant past, my friend has added substantially to the national conversation.&nbsp; I would hope that someday, some way, that might happen again.</p><br>
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    <title>Hey, Congress!  Want Some More Money?</title>
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    <published>2009-11-05T20:16:00Z</published>
    <updated>2009-11-05T21:31:35Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[I'm glad I'm not in politics, because then I can sit here at my computer and come up with sensible solutions to funding our nation's health care needs--without having to answer to&nbsp;the hordes of&nbsp;well-funded lobbyists from&nbsp;pharmaceutical&nbsp;companies and insurance companies. So...]]></summary>
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        <name>Marilyn Sewell</name>
        
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        <![CDATA[<p>I'm glad I'm not in politics, because then I can sit here at my computer and come up with sensible solutions to funding our nation's health care needs--without having to answer to&nbsp;the hordes of&nbsp;well-funded lobbyists from&nbsp;pharmaceutical&nbsp;companies and insurance companies.</p>
<p>So here are a few places where I would go first, to find money:</p>
<p>--The easiest and most obvious one is to change the tax structure.&nbsp; Forget going after&nbsp;the top&nbsp;CEO salaries--yes, they're obscene, but if we reduced them all to zero, we wouldn't even begin to raise the sums we need.&nbsp; We need to <em>substantially</em> raise the taxes of very wealthy people.&nbsp; Obama is going there now, but I wish he could go further, and faster.</p>
<p>--Then I would let a whole lot of people out of prison--or never put them in there, in the first place.&nbsp; There are surely violent, anti-social people who need to be locked up.&nbsp; But there are too many people populating our prisons who could pay their debt to society in some other way than doing jail time. &nbsp;Many might even conceivable be rehabilitated, if we actually tried to do that, which we don't.&nbsp; The U.S. incarcerates people at nearly 5 times the world average, as Nicholas Kristof recently pointed out (NY <em>Times</em>, 8/20/09), And California spends $216,000 annually on each inmate in the juvenile justice system, but spends only $8,000 on each child in the Oakland public school system.&nbsp; What is wrong with this picture?&nbsp;</p>
<p>--And third, there's the obesity factor.&nbsp;&nbsp;Our kids (nevermind the adults who can't fit into airplane seats&nbsp;or into caskets) are getting to be real fatties,&nbsp;which is a major health issue.&nbsp; And soft drinks are the biggest culprit of all, I'm given to understand.&nbsp; So why are we selling soft drinks so cheaply?&nbsp; We should add a fat tax on every soft drink sold and use all that money for health care.</p>
<p>In fact, if we made all these changes, we'd probably take care of the health care crisis and have enough money left over to solve global warming.&nbsp; We wouldn't even have to stop&nbsp;spending billions of dollars on foreign wars--which, in truth,&nbsp;would be my very first choice of&nbsp;a smart cost-cutting measure.&nbsp; But, hey, I'm trying not to dream too big.&nbsp;</p>
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    <title>Economics and Religion</title>
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    <published>2009-10-29T05:18:33Z</published>
    <updated>2009-10-29T05:49:46Z</updated>

    <summary><![CDATA[Yesterday I took part in a panel discussion at Lewis and Clark College's current conference on "Reimagining the Good Life."&nbsp; Our panel's subject was the relationship between economics and religion, in attaining "the good life."&nbsp; I opened with&nbsp;the following&nbsp;three-minute statement,...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>Yesterday I took part in a panel discussion at Lewis and Clark College's current conference on "Reimagining the Good Life."&nbsp; Our panel's subject was the relationship between economics and religion, in attaining "the good life."&nbsp; I opened with&nbsp;the following&nbsp;three-minute statement, which I'm sharing with readers as my "Reflection" for this week:</p>
<p>I remember the first time I began to understand that our economic system could be questioned, that it was not just a given, but actually the product of human choice.&nbsp; I was a social work student, back in the '70's, and I heard a speech by David Gil, a professor from Brandeis.&nbsp; "Who owns the air?" he said.&nbsp; "Who owns the water?"</p>
<p>A word about the ancient god of the free market system, Adam Smith.&nbsp; When Smith is quoted regarding the "invisible hand" of the market, what is conveniently forgotten is his assumptions about the conditions necessary to make free markets work.&nbsp; Smith assumed that we would operate on a small scale and so would know the character of the people we trade with.&nbsp; He assumed that our financial dealings would exist in the context of our values.&nbsp; Instead, Smith's writing is used to justify the mad pursuit of shareholder profit, which is held to be holy and untouchable.</p>
<p>If we consider ourselves religious or&nbsp;spiritual, we know that we must see and enter the suffering of the world, else our own spiritual wounds will never heal.&nbsp; The question comes, though, how do we enter the suffering of the world?&nbsp; Churches are most comfortable with deeds of charity alone.&nbsp; I recall the words of Archbishop Camara of Brazil: "When I give food to the poor, they call me a saint; when I ask why the poor have no food, they call me a Communist."&nbsp; There's nothing wrong with giving soup to hungry people--but the more difficult and dangerous way is systemic change, to get at the system that causes the suffering.</p>
<p>Wendell Berry looked at the derivation of "economics" in his book <em>Home Economics</em>.&nbsp; Originally the word meant&nbsp;"activity involved in caring for the home."&nbsp; Now it is a sophisticated discipline, supposedly a science, grounded in mathematical equations instead of human values.</p>
<p>Do I, a minister, know enough to speak about economics?&nbsp; Am I a citizen?&nbsp; We cannot leave this crucial area to the "experts," who have overlooked the poor among us, saying "that's just the price we have to pay for prosperity"; who have called the bleeding of the earth an "externality"; who have been enamored of formulas in books and have not been concerned that children are hungry.&nbsp; No, we can't leave economics to the experts, because economics is all about how we divvy up resources and therefore it is fundamentally a moral issue.</p>
<p>We wonder that we can do in the face of forces which seem immovable.&nbsp; Well, these forces are in fact subject to change.&nbsp; Human beings have made choices, and different choices can be made.&nbsp; We can say no, and no, and no.&nbsp; We can say no, until they hear us.&nbsp; And we can say yes, here is a new way.&nbsp; It's time now.&nbsp; Let's move there together.</p><br>
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    <title>I Am a Proud Cell Refusenik</title>
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    <published>2009-10-24T00:57:47Z</published>
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    <summary>According to the NY Times (10/23, B1-5), I am a member of a small and shrinking minority known at the &quot;cell refuseniks&quot;--those people who refuse to own a cell phone. Now most of the people who do not have cell...</summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>According to the NY <em>Times</em> (10/23, B1-5), I am a member of a small and shrinking minority known at the "cell refuseniks"--those people who refuse to own a cell phone.</p>
<p>Now most of the people who do not have cell phones (a mere 15% of the population) do so because they "are older" or "less educated" or "unable to afford phones."&nbsp; These reasons are not mine.&nbsp; (Well, I am "older," but not so old that I cannot punch buttons.)&nbsp; So I am among the refuseniks--the 5% of the 15% (that would be, let me see my calculator) less than 1% of the population--exactly .75%!&nbsp; I have never felt so lonely.&nbsp; Others all around me--walking down&nbsp;the street, riding bicycles, waiting for prescriptions to be filled or movies to start, in church, in business meetings, on trains, in restaurants, during serious conversations about death or breaking up with your boyfriend, and of course in automobiles everywhere--all these others are chatting away to their friends and business acquaintances, while I walk through the world alone.&nbsp; </p>
<p>And, yes, I have made this choice.&nbsp; Why, you may say, why?</p>
<p><em>Because I want to be present in this world</em>.&nbsp; It's that simple.&nbsp; I want to be with the people I'm with.&nbsp; I want to see the fall leaves.&nbsp; I want to notice the&nbsp;bicyclists when I drive (I worry so about them).&nbsp; And another thing.&nbsp; I am grossly offended--please note this, cell phone users--<em>grossly offended </em>when I am engaged with someone in what I consider a significant conversation, exchanging words carefully and respectfully, and that person interrupts our intercourse&nbsp;by answering&nbsp;a cell phone ring (often an offensive sound in its own right) and then begins another conversation in my presence.&nbsp; And I am similarly offended when forced to hear one end of&nbsp;someone else's&nbsp;conversation, which may be intimate or loud or boring or all three.</p>
<p>There are reasons for people to own a cell phone.&nbsp; I understand that.&nbsp; Single moms who need to know where their teenagers are.&nbsp; People who take emergency calls of one kind or another.&nbsp; Women (or men) who drive alone at night on deserted roads in undependable&nbsp;cars. That's about it.&nbsp; But wait!&nbsp; What about business calls?&nbsp; Business calls are not human emergencies.&nbsp;</p>
<p>Someone asked me once, "What if a genie appeared to you and told you that you could make 3 inventions disappear from the earth--what would they be?"&nbsp; Well, of course, you'd&nbsp;have to go for the weapons, wouldn't you--the intercontinental ballistic weapons systems, the land mines, the nuclear bombs of all kinds, etc., etc.&nbsp; But given that the weapons were gone,&nbsp;I know what my next two&nbsp;would be: cars and cell phones.&nbsp; The planet might survive.&nbsp; And I could tell my friend about my . . . well, about my <em>life</em>, without being interrupted.&nbsp;</p><br>
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    <title>Rebirth--or Death?</title>
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    <published>2009-10-22T17:03:16Z</published>
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    <summary><![CDATA[On Oct. 8, a&nbsp;self-styled spiritual leader named James Arthur Ray led participants through a two-hour sweat-lodge ceremony in Sedona, CA, a ceremony which was supposed to be a rebirthing exercise.&nbsp; Many began vomiting or passing out during the ordeal, and...]]></summary>
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        <![CDATA[<p>On Oct. 8, a&nbsp;self-styled spiritual leader named James Arthur Ray led participants through a two-hour sweat-lodge ceremony in Sedona, CA, a ceremony which was supposed to be a rebirthing exercise.&nbsp; Many began vomiting or passing out during the ordeal, and by the end of the ceremony, twenty-one people had to be taken to hospitals by emergency crews, and three died. (NY <em>Times</em>, 10/22/09, pp. 1 and A4)</p>
<p>The sweat-lodge ceremony was part of a five-day "Spiritual Warrior" event. Participants were required to spend 36 hours in the desert without food or water, on a "vision quest,"&nbsp;followed by&nbsp;a light breakfast and then the sweat-lodge ceremony.&nbsp; According to one participant, Ted Schmidt, some people left and others wanted to leave, but Ray "was very intimidating" and discouraged people from leaving.&nbsp; Ray told participants, "Play full on, you have to go through this barrier."&nbsp; </p>
<p>Who is James Arthur Ray, anyway?&nbsp; Based in Carlsbad, CA, Ray is a new-age guru with a company called James Ray International, which made $9.4 million in 2008 from various seminars, videos, and books.&nbsp; Ray&nbsp;drew a lot of attention&nbsp;from his appearance in the popular film "The Secret," which focused on reaching goals, both personal and financial.&nbsp; The Spiritual Warrior event cost participants $9,695.</p>
<p>Seemingly undaunted by the deaths in Sedona, Ray continued to provide&nbsp;spiritual leadership at events.&nbsp; At a&nbsp;seminar in Denver this past Tuesday, he was interrupted by two men who shouted, "Tell them the truth!" and "You control poeple!&nbsp; You stood in front of the door and refused to let people leave!"&nbsp; Ray responded by saying, "I, too, want answers and am cooperating with authorities."&nbsp; He then asked for a moment of silent prayer for those who had died.</p>
<p>That such an&nbsp;tragedy should have&nbsp;happened is reprehensible.&nbsp;&nbsp;Ray is responsible for these deaths,&nbsp;and&nbsp;I feel&nbsp;certain that&nbsp;he will be charged with&nbsp;some variation or other of homicide.&nbsp; But the larger question that remains with me is, <em>why did so many people ever allow this travesty to occur?&nbsp;</em> To answer this question, we must explore the present state of the human psyche, and try to understand why so many people are rendered so vulnerable so much of the time.&nbsp;</p>
<p>There is not space in this weekly reflection to go into the depth needed to properly explore the answer to my question, of course, but given such a restriction, I&nbsp;want to suggest some ways of thinking about this phenomenon that has occurred:</p>
<p>(1) People in contemporary time have lost their god, and they suffer from the fear and emptiness of that loss.&nbsp; They have substituted bread and circuses, but have found these lacking, ultimately.</p>
<p>(2)&nbsp;Many people&nbsp;are desperately looking for answers to their emptiness and the lack of meaning in their lives, and they will follow almost anyone who promises to give them answers.&nbsp; They fail to look for something as simple as credentials.</p>
<p>(3) People are social creatures who will "follow the crowd" in spite of the evidence of their own flesh to the contrary. (Contrary&nbsp;to Ray, vomiting and fainting are not signs of spiritual healing.)&nbsp; And they will follow the authority figure.</p>
<p>(4) Many people believe that if you pay a lot of money for something, it will be worth a lot, failing to evaluate an experience for its intrinsic worth.&nbsp; One of the first signs of corruption in a spiritual leader is the high price (money and sometimes sex, always strict obedience)&nbsp;they &nbsp;require from&nbsp;their followers.&nbsp;</p>
<p>(5) It is easier for people to project wisdom and goodness upon a leader than to find it within themselves.&nbsp;</p>
<p>(6)&nbsp;It is easy for any spiritual leader who gains a following to begin to believe his own PR--and that is&nbsp;a spiritual dead-end.&nbsp;&nbsp;It's fine to seek help from a spiritual leader, but try to recognize one when you see one.&nbsp; They should manifest the qualities of humility, peace, compassion, and justice-seeking instead of self-seeking.&nbsp; They should be reality-based, living on this good, green earth and not in some imagined realm someplace else.</p>
<p>This incident makes me so sad for all of us, for our longing to be whole, for our wish to give ourselves to something greater than ourselves, for our genuine need for rebirth.&nbsp; Makes me feel like the Catcher in the Rye.</p><br>
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